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I think I started noticing my hair loss when I was mid-teens. It was not that big of an ordeal at the time, seeing as I knew I was a stressed and busy teenager (I was busy at school ALL of the time). However, as the years rolled by, I began to lose more and more hair. I am now losing hair at an exponential rate and I have no idea what to do about it.
My hair is very thin at the crown and sides of my head.. so thin that I can EASILY see my scalp. I try to hide it, but I really have nothing to hide it with, save a hat. I have gone to a doctor and a dermatologist, and all bloodwork is normal and I have no skin problems which would cause this. I was on birth control once when I was 18 or 19, but that really didn’t cause me to lose any more hair than usual. I am at a loss.
I am usually not one to care about these kinds of issues, but it has consumed my thoughts to the point where there isn’t a day that goes by where I don’t want to break down and cry. I know that my lifestyle is not helping, but I can’t really change it without changing my career goal. I am a full time student and I work part time as a lab assistant. Outside of school, I spend a lot of time studying for the MCAT and doing other school work.. all signs point to stress, but I don’t know what to do about it. It would really help if there was someone to talk to or if anyone has any advice. I feel like I am falling apart…
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Dear Jessica,
I am curious to know if the doctors you’ve seen were able to offer you any type of possible cause for your hair loss? Women with hair loss frequently get back blood test results that “falls within normal range.” I know how unhelpful and frustrating that is because we want to point to something on paper as the identifying cause then work towards fixing it. Blood test results being categorized as “normal” gets to me, because what is “normal” for me may not be normal for another 29 year old and vice versa. So perhaps there is something there for all of us that seems to be consistently getting overlooked by physicians. I write frequently about my thyroid issue I’ve been having, but long story short… I had my thyroid dosage raised twice in the last two years. Test results show that the increased dosage was needed and that my thyroid level with that higher dosage was normal, but it wasn’t. Not for me anyways. During those 2 years I experienced more shedding than ever in the 8 years of having androgenetic alopecia. I lowered my dosage despite what the tests said and I’m now doing a heck of a lot better. I hope it continues, only time will tell. The point is, test results are not always accurate and sometimes it takes working with a physician who is willing to accept that type of reasoning and work towards finding the possible trigger of your hair loss.
Normally red flags start popping up all over the place for me when I hear the words “birth control pills,” because that began the onset of my own hair loss and many other women’s. But in your case it seems to not have been a factor since your hair loss began prior to taking the pill. You suspect stress was the cause of your hair loss in your midteens and currently, and you may very well be right. Some women can experience chronic telogen effluvium from stress. Usually it is extreme stress, such as a death in the family or a traumatic event, but you could be more sensitive to just the daily stresses of life. I think the first thing you should do to consult a knowledgeable doctor who frequently deals with women’s hair loss to determine if your hair follicles are miniaturizing. Miniaturizing follicles point to androgenetic alopeca, aka female pattern baldness. Doctors can usually tell if there is miniaturization by using a densitometer, a hand held device that magnifies a small area of the scalp. Some doctors do scalp biopsies to determine the type of hair loss. I don’t know much about scalp biopsies because I’ve never had one, but several women on this blog have done them and found answers to their hair loss questions.
If I were you that is where I would start. First determine if it is just telogen effluvium or female pattern hair loss. From there you can begin to make educated decisions about how you will want to treat your hair loss. As far as working on the stress, I would highly recommend having body work (massage) done, acupuncture and perhaps try to fit in yoga a few times a week. Those things will definitely help you manage the stress you have and they help to put your body in a more healing environment which can only be positive. Don’t give up, it seems your journey to find the cause and treatment for you hair loss has only just begun and that you possibly have a lot of options. I understand the devastation hair loss causes, and my heart cries every time I read the stories of other women who are suffering from hair loss. You definitely are not alone, I’m always here to help answer any questions you have to the best of my ability and there are a lot of really knowledgeable, kind, supportive women on this blog that are always willing to help as well.
~Y
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Michelle 12.07.07 at 12:53 am
Hello Jessica
I understand what you are going through because I have been experiencing the same thing. My hair has alwasy been fine and began to fall out when I was only 15 and has been falling out even today. My hair is diffused and I can only wear my hair up in public, never down cause you can see my scalp. I am 27 now and have tried almost all the hair loss treatments out there. Rogain, Hair genesis, Revivogen, Herbal remedies, even Rogaine men. I have take countless vitamins and herbal pills and worry if they might have any long term effects. I understand how alone you feel cause I feel the same too. My hairloss has also consumed me and I am really depressed and embarassed it has even affected my marriage. Reading your post and others post has helped me feel normal again, like Im not alone or isolated. I just wanted to reach out to you and let you know your not alone. I have not come to accept completely what is happening to me but I feel this site has helped me get just a bit closer. Thanks : )
Mich
Chrissy 01.08.08 at 4:58 pm
Hi there
I am 33 and have started to lose my hair. I only noticed it and then when I went to the hair dresser he pointed it out to get a blood test to make sure I have all my essential vitamins and minerals. I had a really stressful situation in that my nephew, his girlfriend and their baby lived with me, not by my choice. Anyhow, they were disrespectful, didn’t clean up and I was always under a state of constant stress. I also have hypothyroidism. I went to my primary care where she raised my dosage from .112 to .125. I have only been on this dosage for the last three weeks and am praying that it makes a difference. I read in Reader’s Digest, Dr. Oz, from the Oprah show said that for women who lose their hair, you should go see an endocrinologist. I did and I, like you, was told all tests were normal. My options were rogaine, birth control and another pill but I don’t remember the name of it. I have to do another test, called the cortisol test which I have to get around to doing. My primary care was no help. She offered to send me to a hair loss specialist but he doesn’t take any type of health insurance. I am not rich and cannot afford to spend thousands only to find out nothing can be done. Not one doctor, including the dermatologist and or endocrinologist took a biopsy of my scalp. I am going to try different doctors until I get to the bottom of it. If it is just female pattern baldness then I will live with it but I am afraid there may be more issues going on health wise and someone is missing something somewhere. Funny enough, the endocrinologist didn’t even look at my scalp. My advice is to keep trying. I also read somewhere that women who are losing their hair should eat five ounces of protein a day, take a multi-vitamin, exercise (as it relieves stress) and get sleep. Honestly sleep is something I have not been getting as I am seeing someone who works late hours and like a dope I would stay up until 1am talking to him and having to be up for work at 5 or 6 am and only getting a few hours of sleep. The relationship was also stressful. Sorry for digressing. But that has since change. Anyhow, I just want you to know that you’re not alone. Actually female hair thinning is more common than you know. I live in New York City and in the last few weeks have seen about 4 - 6 women on the NYC Subway system with thinning hair. Not that it makes it better, but at least we know we’re not alone.
All the best to everyone.
Ky 03.15.08 at 11:28 am
Hi, I’m a 27yr old male and had an episode of hairloss from emotional stress (telogen effluvium) at one point in my life
I noticed that his helps to a degree when recovering:
-Avoid feelings of sadness, anger, frustration, and awe. Do not watch any emotional draining films or awe inspiring films.
-Try to have as much laughter, love, happiness, joy as possible but anything that sheds a tear avoid (e.g whether sadness, heartbreak or awe)
-If not then try to be emotional neutral as in zombe like. This to puts less stress on your system and gives it a chance to recover
-Exercise, get lots of fresh air, and lightly massage your skin/body to promote circulation and healing.
-I’m not sure that showering frequently with shampoo helps but I read somewhere that shampoo can help remove sedum build up which allows nutrients to reach the hair shaft
Goodluck
admin 03.18.08 at 8:28 am
Hey Ky,
Thanks for sharing your suggestions. Curious about your hair loss from emotional stress. Did it all grow back?
~Y
Ky 03.19.08 at 5:19 pm
Hi admin,
Once the emotional stress ended it grew back fairly quickly to the same amount as before at about three months give or take a few weeks. Depending on how long your hair is and your daily nutrition, you should see noticeable improvement and increased thickness at around three months or more.
Sometimes if recovery isn’t complete, it can recur on an intermittent basis if you don’t keep an eye on your stress levels. One episode may have little or no effect, but it can be subtle and different events can add up without you knowing until it’s too late. After you fully recover, experiencing these negative emotions shouldn’t be a problem as long as they don’t become too overwhelming or consistent. When my body was stressed I usually had frequent aching chest pains, a tingling, burning, or itching scalp, and strong burning sensations in my stomach.
I also noticed that most of my hair loss was far worse after a shower, experiencing a stressful thought, having a lazy inactive day at home, and after waking up in the morning. I read somewhere that the inactive hairs fall out due to new hair growth, so I guess hair shedding can either be a sign of recovery or additional stress
Robin Flamish 03.20.08 at 4:00 pm
Just wanted to say I completely get what you are saying, I suffer from the same type of hair loss along with female pattern balding. It can be totally devastating especially if the stress is on a regular basis. That is why I say….. low stresses keep the tresses. The mind body connection is REAL!
nasim 08.14.08 at 12:06 pm
hi
i am 28.my hair is very thin and it has been begun to loose for 3 years.i am very sad about this problem.i had a blood test.i dont have any hormonalproblem.now i use finastride pill,but my hair has not changed.please help me.
best regards
nasim
Mary 10.09.08 at 9:27 am
Hi! I feel so sorry for any woman going through hair loss. I have been dealing with hair loss a little over 2 years. It has thinned so much, I now keep it pulled up. My hair loss began after i had my second child. I also went to the doctors and a dermatologist. Really no help. It could possibly be from child birth, I really dont know. Since I have had another baby. I wish it would just stop falling. Even my eyebrows have thinned. But all blood work came back normal, so pretty much I too am at a loss. If my is from childbirth (which is called telogen effluvium) shouldnt it have stopped from now. My third baby will be a year old next month. I hope everyone recovers from thrie hairloss. God Bless!!!