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		By: Beth S.		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Beth S.]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 20 Oct 2012 17:00:24 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[I only live about eight miles from Teaneck, NJ and have never heard of Flora&#039;s but am definitely going to check it out.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I only live about eight miles from Teaneck, NJ and have never heard of Flora&#8217;s but am definitely going to check it out.</p>
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		By: caseys		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[caseys]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 19 Oct 2012 15:22:31 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[@N - My hairloss is at a point where I could have used an illusion fall.  Actually, Flora didn&#039;t even want to show me full wigs since she didn&#039;t think I needed one.  Anyway, I tried a fall on and it was jaw-dropping amazing.  However, they clip in and I don&#039;t think my hair could handle the pressure for very long.  I was tempted though because they&#039;re more comfortable than a full wig but they cost just as much!!!  What if I can&#039;t use clips anymore 6 months from now?  I figured if I&#039;m going to invest in something like this I need to know I can use it for as long as I possible, so I got a full wig.

I know what you mean about buying site unseen.  I couldn&#039;t do it either and I feel fortunate to have a reputable shop like Flora&#039;s near by.  I think it&#039;s crucial to go somewhere to try things on.  You, like me, have hard to match hair (mine&#039;s very wavy - borderline curly) and it was super important for me to have a piece that matched my bio hair as closely as possible.  That&#039;s so hard to do online.  The waves in my &quot;new&quot; hair closely match my bio hair when I blow it out.  And the color couldn&#039;t be any more spot-on.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@N &#8211; My hairloss is at a point where I could have used an illusion fall.  Actually, Flora didn&#8217;t even want to show me full wigs since she didn&#8217;t think I needed one.  Anyway, I tried a fall on and it was jaw-dropping amazing.  However, they clip in and I don&#8217;t think my hair could handle the pressure for very long.  I was tempted though because they&#8217;re more comfortable than a full wig but they cost just as much!!!  What if I can&#8217;t use clips anymore 6 months from now?  I figured if I&#8217;m going to invest in something like this I need to know I can use it for as long as I possible, so I got a full wig.</p>
<p>I know what you mean about buying site unseen.  I couldn&#8217;t do it either and I feel fortunate to have a reputable shop like Flora&#8217;s near by.  I think it&#8217;s crucial to go somewhere to try things on.  You, like me, have hard to match hair (mine&#8217;s very wavy &#8211; borderline curly) and it was super important for me to have a piece that matched my bio hair as closely as possible.  That&#8217;s so hard to do online.  The waves in my &#8220;new&#8221; hair closely match my bio hair when I blow it out.  And the color couldn&#8217;t be any more spot-on.</p>
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		By: N		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[N]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 18 Oct 2012 22:48:24 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[@caseys - thank you, I heard of Flora and look at her website daily, just to drool over the amazing stuff she has.  I am so glad to hear you are happy with your new hair! Do you have the illusion fall?  Problem is that Teaneck/NYC is a good 5 hour drive from me.  I would have already gone there if that wasn&#039;t the case, but logistics of doing this and leaving my young son for a weekend just don&#039;t align.  For some reason I am reluctant to just order something this important and this expensive sight unseen.  I know people do it, it just scares me...but my bio hair is so awful, I might just have to pull the trigger soon.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@caseys &#8211; thank you, I heard of Flora and look at her website daily, just to drool over the amazing stuff she has.  I am so glad to hear you are happy with your new hair! Do you have the illusion fall?  Problem is that Teaneck/NYC is a good 5 hour drive from me.  I would have already gone there if that wasn&#8217;t the case, but logistics of doing this and leaving my young son for a weekend just don&#8217;t align.  For some reason I am reluctant to just order something this important and this expensive sight unseen.  I know people do it, it just scares me&#8230;but my bio hair is so awful, I might just have to pull the trigger soon.</p>
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		By: caseys		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[caseys]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 18 Oct 2012 15:27:10 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[@N - Design by Flora (you can google it) makes human hair wigs in all shapes and sizes, toppers too.  Her shops are in Teaneck, NJ and NYC.  I&#039;ve been to her shop in Teaneck and I was drooling over some of her long curly ones.  No way I could pull it off tho.  I got a shoulder-length layered one that&#039;s wavy-ish, which I&#039;m very happy with.  My daughter, mother, sister, and everyone in between have not noticed (at least no one has said anything) that I was wearing it!!  I&#039;m not ready to tell anyone yet, but will do so once I&#039;m fully wigified.  Also, all of Flora&#039;s wigs are wearable (washed &#038; styled) right off the rack so they look great when you try them on.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@N &#8211; Design by Flora (you can google it) makes human hair wigs in all shapes and sizes, toppers too.  Her shops are in Teaneck, NJ and NYC.  I&#8217;ve been to her shop in Teaneck and I was drooling over some of her long curly ones.  No way I could pull it off tho.  I got a shoulder-length layered one that&#8217;s wavy-ish, which I&#8217;m very happy with.  My daughter, mother, sister, and everyone in between have not noticed (at least no one has said anything) that I was wearing it!!  I&#8217;m not ready to tell anyone yet, but will do so once I&#8217;m fully wigified.  Also, all of Flora&#8217;s wigs are wearable (washed &amp; styled) right off the rack so they look great when you try them on.</p>
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		By: N		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[N]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 18 Oct 2012 03:15:49 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Y - I wanted to say that you are an amazing inspiration.  From the depths of depression over my battle with hairloss, I&#039;ve followed your journey and always felt a little bit less alone.  You&#039;ve given me the courage to realize that it&#039;s time to start living again, therefore begins my wiggy search.  So far I am not getting anywhere, but the search continues.  I have to say I had high hopes for Follea and was mighty disappointed to learn they don&#039;t have curly wigs.  If I am to have any hope of passing this hair as real, which is important to me - and goddamit it is real if I am going to shell out this kind of money and take care of it - it needs to be curly.   Do you know of any wigs similar to Follea in quality that are curly?  Thank you again for being an amazing inspiration!]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Y &#8211; I wanted to say that you are an amazing inspiration.  From the depths of depression over my battle with hairloss, I&#8217;ve followed your journey and always felt a little bit less alone.  You&#8217;ve given me the courage to realize that it&#8217;s time to start living again, therefore begins my wiggy search.  So far I am not getting anywhere, but the search continues.  I have to say I had high hopes for Follea and was mighty disappointed to learn they don&#8217;t have curly wigs.  If I am to have any hope of passing this hair as real, which is important to me &#8211; and goddamit it is real if I am going to shell out this kind of money and take care of it &#8211; it needs to be curly.   Do you know of any wigs similar to Follea in quality that are curly?  Thank you again for being an amazing inspiration!</p>
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		By: Electra		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Electra]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 17 Oct 2012 21:55:38 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Wiglandia is not so bad.... You get to choose your hair in wiggoland :)  

Wishing you a beautiful baby! Kids are a good distraction from the hair problems most of the time.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Wiglandia is not so bad&#8230;. You get to choose your hair in wiggoland 🙂  </p>
<p>Wishing you a beautiful baby! Kids are a good distraction from the hair problems most of the time.</p>
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		By: Kim		</title>
		<link>https://www.womenshairlossproject.com/womens-hair-loss/the-call-ive-been-meaning-to-make/#comment-298673</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Kim]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 17 Oct 2012 19:36:39 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Thanks so much Admin and Electra - really appreciate the responses! Will let you know how my next appointment goes. 

Get this for a HL situation -- right now is hair is shedding LIKE MAD for the 3rd time - 3rd massive shed - in 3 yrs and I&#039;m about to do a round of IVF - In Vitro Fertilization - in 2 weeks - because my husband&#039;s sperm do not swim - where they will shoot me full of hormones like a billion different hormones and shots and meds! I&#039;m expecting its going to be like chemo as far as the hair goes.  So as admin says, &#039;wiglandia&#039; here I come. 

xoxo]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks so much Admin and Electra &#8211; really appreciate the responses! Will let you know how my next appointment goes. </p>
<p>Get this for a HL situation &#8212; right now is hair is shedding LIKE MAD for the 3rd time &#8211; 3rd massive shed &#8211; in 3 yrs and I&#8217;m about to do a round of IVF &#8211; In Vitro Fertilization &#8211; in 2 weeks &#8211; because my husband&#8217;s sperm do not swim &#8211; where they will shoot me full of hormones like a billion different hormones and shots and meds! I&#8217;m expecting its going to be like chemo as far as the hair goes.  So as admin says, &#8216;wiglandia&#8217; here I come. </p>
<p>xoxo</p>
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		By: Electra		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Electra]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 17 Oct 2012 12:56:58 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[I have a comment for Kim. My first Follea try on didn&#039;t go well either. I saw a rep not a a salon. I have a chin length bob and was hoping for a dark blonde topper or wig. She brought long length toppers in bright platinum blonde. She brought two wigs. One was dark plum, ELVIRA... And one nice wig that was in the color I liked, but it was all bunched up in the bag and looked a fright. They looked like Halloween wigs on me. 

I went for a second try at a salon that was a further drive and it was worth it. He ordered dark blonde, light brown and in the right length. He also styled one of the wigs for me so that it looked nice and ready to go. He also showed me one of the wigs wet. 

I wound up buying one of the pieces I tried. I think you should request the exact wig you are interested in. You should be able to try it before you buy it and request they clean it up before you get there so she doesn&#039;t have bag head.

If the salon isn&#039;t cooperative, call Follea. I called them and they bent over backwards to make sure I got what I needed.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I have a comment for Kim. My first Follea try on didn&#8217;t go well either. I saw a rep not a a salon. I have a chin length bob and was hoping for a dark blonde topper or wig. She brought long length toppers in bright platinum blonde. She brought two wigs. One was dark plum, ELVIRA&#8230; And one nice wig that was in the color I liked, but it was all bunched up in the bag and looked a fright. They looked like Halloween wigs on me. </p>
<p>I went for a second try at a salon that was a further drive and it was worth it. He ordered dark blonde, light brown and in the right length. He also styled one of the wigs for me so that it looked nice and ready to go. He also showed me one of the wigs wet. </p>
<p>I wound up buying one of the pieces I tried. I think you should request the exact wig you are interested in. You should be able to try it before you buy it and request they clean it up before you get there so she doesn&#8217;t have bag head.</p>
<p>If the salon isn&#8217;t cooperative, call Follea. I called them and they bent over backwards to make sure I got what I needed.</p>
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		By: admin		</title>
		<link>https://www.womenshairlossproject.com/womens-hair-loss/the-call-ive-been-meaning-to-make/#comment-298146</link>

		<dc:creator><![CDATA[admin]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 17 Oct 2012 04:13:57 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[@Beth S - Great points! I agree there is a grieving process when we loose are hair, and there just has to come a time where we give ourselves permission to move on. I still do have so many emotions associated with my hair loss and sometimes they come rushing up to the surface at the drop of the hat, it&#039;s a smack in the face and reminder of how scarred I am from this frigging thing, like I wrote some earlier today, it&#039;s PTHD (Post Traumatic Hair Loss Disorder) LOL but no matter what I have decided to longer be imprisoned by my hair, the shedding and loss. 

@JenniferMarie - Thank you so much! Yes indeed the word needs to get out that wigs are no longer taboo or something just for little old ladies in rocking chairs :) 

@Kim - I keep my wig on when I try clothes :) I don&#039;t take it off, it stays on fine when I put shirts on and of. I think perhaps a turtleneck might be challenging though LOL . I&#039;m sorry to hear your Follea appointment didn&#039;t go well, I know that must be really disappointing, especially if you wanted to see the Lifestyle wig and got the Aeros. The lifestyle wig is and all hand tied cap which I prefer, the Aero, is a hand tied lacefront and lace top with a machine wefted back, there is a difference in how the caps feel, and if the cap was too big that would definitely not be good. You&#039;re right it is hard to take that leap if you don&#039;t like it 100% before, I bought Natalia, sort of with the flat head look :) and was just pleasantly surprised once I washed her. Tatiana, is the Luxury collection and Follea did give me Anya, which I talked about in a previous post. Don&#039;t be discouraged, the wiggy hunt is a process and  it can definitely take time to find the right girl for you. 

XOXO]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@Beth S &#8211; Great points! I agree there is a grieving process when we loose are hair, and there just has to come a time where we give ourselves permission to move on. I still do have so many emotions associated with my hair loss and sometimes they come rushing up to the surface at the drop of the hat, it&#8217;s a smack in the face and reminder of how scarred I am from this frigging thing, like I wrote some earlier today, it&#8217;s PTHD (Post Traumatic Hair Loss Disorder) LOL but no matter what I have decided to longer be imprisoned by my hair, the shedding and loss. </p>
<p>@JenniferMarie &#8211; Thank you so much! Yes indeed the word needs to get out that wigs are no longer taboo or something just for little old ladies in rocking chairs 🙂 </p>
<p>@Kim &#8211; I keep my wig on when I try clothes 🙂 I don&#8217;t take it off, it stays on fine when I put shirts on and of. I think perhaps a turtleneck might be challenging though LOL . I&#8217;m sorry to hear your Follea appointment didn&#8217;t go well, I know that must be really disappointing, especially if you wanted to see the Lifestyle wig and got the Aeros. The lifestyle wig is and all hand tied cap which I prefer, the Aero, is a hand tied lacefront and lace top with a machine wefted back, there is a difference in how the caps feel, and if the cap was too big that would definitely not be good. You&#8217;re right it is hard to take that leap if you don&#8217;t like it 100% before, I bought Natalia, sort of with the flat head look 🙂 and was just pleasantly surprised once I washed her. Tatiana, is the Luxury collection and Follea did give me Anya, which I talked about in a previous post. Don&#8217;t be discouraged, the wiggy hunt is a process and  it can definitely take time to find the right girl for you. </p>
<p>XOXO</p>
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		By: Kim		</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Kim]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 16 Oct 2012 19:41:00 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Hi Y!! Thank you so much for your inspiring and powerful posts. I have a random wig-wearing question: What do you do when you go shopping for clothes? I mean, in the fitting room -- do you take off the wig - try on all the clothes without going outside to the larger mirror - get dressed/put wig back on OR just not wear the wig going shopping? I know - a trivial issue - but I thought of it last time I was in a dressing room trying some tops on. 

My Follea appt in NYC didn&#039;t go so well. they didnt ship the right wigs -- I wanted to try the Lifestyle wigs - your Anya and Natalia - but they only sent Aeros. And the hair was falling right in my eyes/face and the cap size was too large I think because it looked poofed. So I left without anything but will probably try again as I get closer to &#039;that point.&#039; You mentioned this is normal - that out of the box the wigs don&#039;t look that great -- but I find it tough to take that leap of faith that the wig will work because they are so costly. I want to KNOW it looks great before plunking down so much $$$!

Lastly - may I ask - your latest edition - Tatiana - is that the Follea Luxary wig or another Lifestyle? Are you getting any kind of discount/complimentary wigs from all the volume you&#039;re sending their way? You absolutely SHOULD BE!!!

Thanks a million as always - you are such a positive inspiration. 

Kim]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Y!! Thank you so much for your inspiring and powerful posts. I have a random wig-wearing question: What do you do when you go shopping for clothes? I mean, in the fitting room &#8212; do you take off the wig &#8211; try on all the clothes without going outside to the larger mirror &#8211; get dressed/put wig back on OR just not wear the wig going shopping? I know &#8211; a trivial issue &#8211; but I thought of it last time I was in a dressing room trying some tops on. </p>
<p>My Follea appt in NYC didn&#8217;t go so well. they didnt ship the right wigs &#8212; I wanted to try the Lifestyle wigs &#8211; your Anya and Natalia &#8211; but they only sent Aeros. And the hair was falling right in my eyes/face and the cap size was too large I think because it looked poofed. So I left without anything but will probably try again as I get closer to &#8216;that point.&#8217; You mentioned this is normal &#8211; that out of the box the wigs don&#8217;t look that great &#8212; but I find it tough to take that leap of faith that the wig will work because they are so costly. I want to KNOW it looks great before plunking down so much $$$!</p>
<p>Lastly &#8211; may I ask &#8211; your latest edition &#8211; Tatiana &#8211; is that the Follea Luxary wig or another Lifestyle? Are you getting any kind of discount/complimentary wigs from all the volume you&#8217;re sending their way? You absolutely SHOULD BE!!!</p>
<p>Thanks a million as always &#8211; you are such a positive inspiration. </p>
<p>Kim</p>
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