@ B – I’m so happy to hear you where able to look at yourself as a WHOLE. It’s so hard to do, but that is how others see us, they aren’t focusing on just our hair, they see us as a whole and if we could start doing that for ourselves more and more, we’d definitely have an easier time. You salon story sounds like a nightmare, omg, I’m so sorry you had to go through that. While it is probably inevitable that most people will have to rely on others somewhat to take care of their bio hair (cut and color) I just think once we’re in hair the more we can be on top of ourselves, the easier it might be. If you are having someone cut your hair, be on them… Like a hawk, speak up all the way through. I can guarantee what happened to me a few weeks ago will never, ever ever ever happen again. Since I’m late in writing everyone back, your next week, is now this week… when do you get your new custom wigs. I want to hear about them, please keep us posted! And yes, from every experience we do learn something… I learned to make sure to pin your eyelids back and keep focused during the whole CUT and above all else, no matter how long that stylist has been cutting your hair, don’t fall asleep at the switch on any hair cut and assume they’ll do a good job again. Be watching and be VERY clear on what is important to you and what you need.

@Hope4hair – My head never was hot when I had longer hair, so it is kinda of the same in that respect, but I think they fit better because there is just less under there. Yes I walk around the house without my wig at night. Once I know I’m in for the night, I’ll shake that girl off and go Au Naturel…And as for swimming, never been a water gal 🙂

@Gls – You nailed it, the only thing we CAN be sure of is that everything changes, and we have to learn to adapt and roll with it. Easier said than done, and we will stumble along the way, but I believe with support and a desire to want more for ourselves, that we can get past all of this and reclaim ourselves.

@Carrie – Are you looking for Follea or other brands?

@lina – It’s so funny, so many comments came my way about the razor being so close to Tatiana, ha ha. I’m sorry for scaring everyone. I treated Tatiana to a spa day in light of being so careless with her life 🙂 Yay for smiles indeed!

@phillygrl – I replied to you on Facebook, but just want to say…. MUAH! You always say the sweetest things!

@Ann T- When I pass by Tatiana in the bathroom, I alway have to touch her LOL

XOXO ((HUGS))

Hope all is good with you. I havent gone back to the “lazer lady” since I last wrote , but I feel like I want to. haha
Hope your rescue baby is doing better ! Both of mine our rescues too.

And you are right…we do NEED YOU “Y”!(Bunch of needy women!lol) There is no way to count the number of women(vocal and silent) that she has helped. I wish I could put it into words better than I do.

Now.. TELL US about the wine and the razor ????? :D:D

XOXOXO

Yay for the smiles – we NEED you.

Happy Friday,

xxoo Lina