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I had written awhile back but wanted to send you my story again, and this time post some positive updates.
One thing that I noticed way back when my hairloss journey started, was that the negative posts and testimonials by far outweighed the positive ones. My fear was that most women were losing this hairloss battle. My hope was that once they solved their hairloss nightmare, they were too busy not worrying about their hair to post their updates. I want to submit my story because I am having positive results as I attempt to figure out what has happened to my hair and how to stop the cycle of loss.
It was 2004 when my life changed. It was 3 months after I had stopped taking birth control (alesse) and my hair was coming out in ropes. I’ll never forget taking a shower before going out one Friday evening, and my hands were covered with hair. At the time, I had no clue that it was related to the cessation of using birth control. I thought I was dying, from cancer, from something. I stayed home that night and didn’t go out, I’ll never forget sobbing the whole evening, scouring the internet trying to figure out what was going on. My vanity was bruised. I remember feeling too ugly and embarrassed to be social or even go to the gym. I took a 3 week leave of absence from my job to go be with my then-boyfriend (now wonderful husband!) in Europe where he was for work. I needed his support and he was truly there for me no matter how embarrassed I was. I had extensions put in after much research, just to make me feel like I had hair again. I did everything I could to mask what was going on with my hair, while I devoured information to figure out what happened to me. It was then that I realized it was the birth control pill.
I made the mistake of jumping back on birth control because doctors told me that I might be responsive to a hair-friendly pill like Yaz or Yasmin. I chose Yasmin and figured I would just stay on it the rest of my life if I had to. Back then, all I cared about was how I looked, not about my health. I kept the extensions in for about 2 years. One day I went into the salon to get them done and my stylist said - “You know you don’t need these anymore. They are just your security right now. Your hair is fine.” What?? My hair was fine?? I was so used to the weight of the extensions that I didn’t believe her. She washed my hair and cut it without the extensions, and we blowed it dry. She was right, I looked totally normal. I was ELATED. I don’t think I stopped touching my hair for days. It was all mine, and I looked absolutely normal. It had thin spots, sure, but I could wear it up or down and it had body and I looked like me again. It was not nearly as thick as it was before the loss, but it was enough.
Fast forward to 2008. My husband and I wanted to try to have a baby and I dreaded having to come off the pill. I felt like I had worked so hard to get my hair back, and now I was going to have to let it go again. I was terrified that if I tampered with it, it might not come back again. Also, everyone kept telling me that fluctuating hormones could kick in AGA and I was pretty sure I already had AGA since I have some thinner spots, so I was even more scared. But, having a child meant more to me. I went off the pill and 3 months later, luckily, I got pregnant. However, the shedding started even though my hormones had changed due to the pregnancy. My hair fell out in buckets. All of that long, healthy hair went down the drain. It looked horrible yet again. This time though, it only lasted 2 months, because I was pregnant and I was benefiting from a surge of estrogen! Eventually, my hair didn’t shed at all. The entire pregnancy, I would lose maybe one hair a day, it was a beautiful time of not having to worry about my hair, and I was off the pill and completely au natural. It felt great.
I knew that post-partum hair shedding was going to be waiting for me after I delivered our little girl, so I just enjoyed having thicker hair again and savored each day. I figured I would just get back on the pill after her birth. I learned that if I wanted to breastfeed, I wouldn’t be able to be on the pill. I enjoyed breastfeeding so much that I thought, oh well - if I had to be bald so that I can breastfeed, then I’ll do it. It’s worth it. At 2.5 months post-partum, my hair came out in bunches. I Was losing over 200-300 hairs a day and didn’t have much to begin with! I Wanted to go back on the pill so badly, to stop the loss… But something inside of me said, don’t go back on the pill, don’t cave, stop tampering with your hormones and just let them figure it out. I knew that I might not get my hair back, but I didn’t want to stop nourishing my child for my own vanity! Plus, I just wanted to see what happened, even if it meant losing more hair than ever before
and encouraging AGA to take over my of my scalp.
Well, here I am at 5 months post-partum. I still shed every day but not as much as it was 10 weeks ago. The hair IS coming back in, slowly but surely. My ponytail feels a bit thicker these days. I have a great regimen to support my hair: Nioxin Shampoo and Conditioner, Thicker Fuller Hair Serum, and Air Dry. Prental vitamins, and Fish Oil supplements. I am not going bald, in fact, I think my body is enjoying getting back to it’s old self. No synthetic estrogen needed.
What I believe is that this is all a journey. Tomorrow, I might wake up and have a massive shed that renders me so thin on top that I’d have to get a topper of some sort. Or, I might wake up with a fuller head of hair than I’ve ever had before. It seems to ebb and flow. I started this journey in 2004 and here I am 5 years later after pregnancy and again stopping the pill, and I still have hair. I feel like I am winning, I feel like I am beating it.
I wish that doctors/OB’s/GYN’s would tell you that when you go off the pill, it is like having a baby. Your body craves that estrogen and lets go of everything it doesn’t need temporarily. I think lots of us have gone back on the pill quickly in order to reverse that loss because waiting it out seems so scary. In my case, I think I had to let my hair hit rock bottom on it’s own, which I am doing right now so that it can adjust and regulate itself.
Do I think I will have thick hair again? Nope. But I would like to have more kids and I just don’t want to have to come off the pill yet again, sending my body into artificial shock for no reason. I am going to continue healthy hair habits, and pray that it keeps coming back enough on it’s own that I can make do without obsessing about it constantly. I can’t believe that I’m here, that it’s 5 months post partum, and that I’m ok.
For those of you who are experiencing similar pain, you know this is a small victory. I want to encourage everyone to be on their hair journey and have hope, have optimism that you can figure it out. Even if it means that you need to supplement with artificial hair to make yourself whole again, do it. Do what it takes to feel good. Post positive successes, and results. Encourage others. Let’s beat this!


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Kristina 09.11.09 at 12:34 pm
Thank you for that kick-ass story! But, seriously to focus on your positive results and having the courage to wait it out while your body adjusts takes faith and strength. Not going back on birth control is such a good example to other women who are wavering on what to do; it is an individual decision, but I’m sure you have inspired some women to go the natural route.
It is inspiring to me to read your story!
Thanks, Kristina
LDK 09.12.09 at 11:05 am
You must have had a temporary hormonal imbalance that you were able to straighten out, and thus re-grow your hair - that is awesome! However, you probably weren’t dealing with Androgenetic Alopecia - I hate to sound negative, but if you are experiencing hair loss due to female pattern baldness, you probably will never be able to re-grow your hair - there are things you can do to help slow down the process of loosing your hair - but if it’s in your DNA, it’s a loosing battle. On the flip side, it makes me sad to hear about so many vulnerable women spending so much money on scams and false promises in the effort of trying to get back their hair. There is no cure for hair loss (female pattern baldness) otherwise none of us would be on this site. There are other reasons besides FPB that women loose their hair, you are one of the fortunate ones because your shed was not due to a sensitivity to DHT, and consequently minitiarizing of your hair. Thyroid issues, temporary imbalances due to childbirth, bcp, surgery…. those issues can be resolved if it doesn’t trigger Androgenetic Alopecia in their systems…. I do think there is something to be said for getting off the pill in order to let your body go back to it’s own natural hormonal fluctuations. I am not trying to be negative, just realistic. I am certainly jealous of you - and happy for you too!
lori 09.12.09 at 3:35 pm
i lost my hair due to hormone imbalance. It was after having ovary removed in 2007. Still to this day, hair is coming out due to low female hormones and now the male hormones are the dominate ones(even though they are low too). I think my hormones were low to begin with.
Now that i take estrogen and progesterone.(natural hormones)..it’s getting better.
I think all the above causes AGA to be honest. It doesn’t always have to “JUST” be genetics to bring on AGA.
Jessica 09.14.09 at 6:53 am
Hi LDK….. I do believe that I have AGA to some degree. Back in 2004 when I started going to dermatologists to figure out what this was, they took a scalp biopsy and said that it was AGA due to miniaturization. Also, when I’m going through a shed, I shed those horrible AGA hairs - the clear wiry looking kind that are real wispy. When I was given my scalp biopsy results, I didn’t want to believe them because my experience with doctors & hair loss had been so disappointing. Doctors didn’t seem to know anything more than i did, especially dermatologists. I think that it’s possible to have more than one issue going on at the same time. It’s not just that you have AGA or just Telogen Effluvium, it can be both. Like I said, I don’t have tons of hair, it is by no means thick, and I’ve got thin spots that I will probably always have. I have just learned to live with less hair and do the most with it. There were times when I was in the thick of massive shedding that my hair was not wearable. I had to have extensions or constantly wear a ponytail. Now, I can wear it down or up and it looks fine…. not thick, but absolutely normal and fine. For me, that is enough and it gives me hope that maybe some of my healthier hair will keep growing….:) Being able to not feel embarassed is good enough for me at this point!
jw 09.18.09 at 8:22 am
I am 22 years old and have recently been dealing with hair loss due to being on NuvaRing. Reading your story and others on the web has me in tears right now. I stopped NuvaRing two days ago in hopes my body will get “back to normal” (the opposite of what your were experiencing, it sounds like), but results with that, at least online, sound to be very mixed. I’m extremely nervous. For the last few months, my hair has been coming out in handfuls at a time, it covers my clothes and pillows. I’m afraid to brush/style it, and even wash it. I hope both your horror story and mine both have happy resolutions.
Christina 09.21.09 at 8:32 pm
I am 21 and I have two children a 2 year old and a 1 year old. I have been experiencing sever hair loss since I had my second child. I was on Mirena but after 6 months of loosing my hair I decided to have it removed. I am now on the pill and still loosing handfuls of hair at a time. I can now look in the mirror and see my scalp on the crown of my head easily. I am stopping my birth control. I’m so depressed about loosing my hair. I go to the doctor wednesday hopefully they will figure something out. I’m very glad that your hair is coming back. Hair loss was the very last thing on my mind at age 21 but for me now it’s reality!
Honey 09.28.09 at 11:06 am
Im kind of confused.
My hair loss has been because of coming off the birth control pill too( now im sure after reading your story).
I also noticed i got dandruff all of sudden also. So now my hair comes off in hand fulls at a time!
my question is, i got dandruff because of coming off the pill?
and can AGA be helped in the case of coming off the pill?
Annie 09.29.09 at 8:15 pm
Wow!
Your story is amazing, but I gotta ask…
I’ve been using Nioxin for just over two weeks and am getting really scared with the number of hairs I find in the drain EVERY shower. I stopped using it just a few days ago because I can’t take how much I’ve lost in just two weeks (I’ve gone from NOT noticeably thinning to obviously balding - again, in two weeks). Can you detail you experience with this product?
please?
thanks,
Annie
Chameika 10.04.09 at 10:10 am
Hi Jessica,
Thanks for your story. I just recently came out of a deep depression with my hairloss. I have been losing my hair for the past 5 years. I think my hairloss initiated when I switched up my birth control pills. I was on Ortho Tricyclen for about six years. Switched to the Nuva ring, then to Seasonel, then to Triphasil then to Yaz. All my switching happened over a 3 year period. What I later found out through extensive research on my own. Is Nuva ring, Seasonel and Triphasil androgen index are high. Thus explaining why being on Ortho Tri cyclen I never had a problem with acne nor hairloss. Now as for Yaz, yes it is a androgen friendly pill, but I had a lot of chin acne and my mood swings where horrible. This pill was not for me. Yaz was the last pill I was on 2 years ago. My hailoss stopped for 4 months exactly then it came back with avengance. I was not on any birth control pills for 18 months during that time the hairloss slowed down and got worse. I got pregnant and during my pregnancy, I did not experience any hairloss maybe 1 strain every other day. 7 weeks post partum my hair began falling out in clumps. It has been 2 months and it continues to fall out. I see scalp in the mirror. Also something disturbing I have noticed. I am starting to recede, which didn’t happen before. It’s like it has gotten worse and I am not sure if it will get better. It is a true fact your body does crave the extra estrogen you give it. And birth control pills in particular can activate AGA.
thanks, chameika
Holly 10.04.09 at 6:00 pm
Hi Ladies! My name is Holly and I came across this site a few days ago. I wanted to let all of you know that after reading your comments and stories, I feel better. I am no longer embarassed about what am going through and in fact decided to take some action and see what options I have. I have not been formally diagnosed with any particular deficiency, hormonal imbalance, auto immune disorder or anything, but am siffering greatly from hairloss. In the past few months I have lost more hair than I thought I even had. I have some interesting info for those of you also begining to have hair loss or thinning. While doing some research into rogaine and provillus and products like it, I came across a girl who recommended a natural shampoo. Well after doing more research I decided to go with Jasons thin to thick biotin shampoo and conditioner. I have also been taking several different vitamins and watching my nutrition. I am EXTATIC to report that my hair has stopped coming out by the handfuls!! I dont know if anyone here has actually counted the strands they’ve lost but I have. Today in the shower, for the first time in monhts I did not lose clumps of hair, in fact I only counted 30. I was amazed, I kept running my fingers throuhg and waiting to be disapointed and have a handful of hair fall off, but it didnt. I just kept saying 30… only 30 holy cow… I lose more than that just by playing with my hair or running my hands through it. I would not say my hair is “thicker” but it is not as patchy when wet, it definatly has a little more volume to help cover the spots where the scalp is really noticable. I hope that I continue to have progress. I am tracking the results weekly with pictures and if I do have any significant change I will definately let everyone here know! Just reading your stories has given me alot of hope and courage not to be afraid of what may come. I thank eacha nd everyone of you who have been brave enough to take part in this website
Thank you
Holly
Tara 10.18.09 at 11:47 am
My story is a very positive one - perfect for those who are starting to give up hope. I went on the pill at age 17 with very very thick hair. It started coming out/shedding at a higher rate, though not horribly, and the thinness of it was actually preferable at first as my super-thick hair was unmanageable. Of course, over the years, the hair became thinner and thinner until I could see through it to my scalp. I never associated my thin hair with the pill - didn’t even know it was a side effect.
Ten months ago, I went off the pill (Loestrin) and my hair started coming out even faster - large amounts all day, in the shower, and on my hairbrush. My husband finally broke down and told me he was worried about my balding. I freaked out, went on Rogaine (which only made it worse and was pointless as my body was reacting to the lack of estrogen), and finally found this site. This site helped me so much! I was seriously depressed and anxious about my hair.
Well, ten months after stopping the pill (I’m not using Rogaine anymore, btw), my hair is growing in - and VERY thick! I have a whole layer growing in that’s all the same length - the part near my hairline could work as bangs! All it took was going off the pill, suffering the “dread-shed”, and hanging in there.
All I can say to anyone who has lost their hair from being on the pill is: go off the pill, use fillers (Topik is great), hats, extensions if necessary to get through the dread-shed, and you will be rewarded with HAIR. Just hang in there, use this great site for support, and you will get through this. DO NOT go back on the pill - you’re too sensitive to the the hormones, or you wouldn’t lose your hair in the first place. Use something else that’s non-hormonal for birth control and have a full head of hair. If I could go back in time, I would’ve done this years ago. My hair is gorgeous, at long last!
Lisa 10.21.09 at 11:54 pm
3 months ago I stopped taking my BC Ortho Tricyclene. Little did I know 3 months later I would experiece hair loss in clumps. It has been a month, and I am now back on it. Will it grow back? Or just stop for that matter?????
Samantha 10.30.09 at 7:31 pm
Hello All, I too have been experiencing hair loss for over two years. I’ve been to many doctors who all tell me the samething , “it’s stress”. I’ve had blood work done and nothing seems to be off balanced. I have to say it gets very stressful at times when you know something is wrong with yourself and nobody can give you an answer. I started to go back in time and think about what I did differently over two years ago and it finally clicked! I was one Orthro TriCyclen low since I was 16 years old and me and my husband at the time decided we wanted to try for a baby. This is when my hair began to slowly come out. I first noticed a small bald spot on the back of my head. It wasn’t until 2 months ago when I really started to notice. I feel like I can never wear my hair down. My hair is always up. After reading many of your stories it has given me hope to hang in there. I did recently start taking Yasmin in hope that this will help my hair grow back. I just want to do everything one step at a time. I wish you all the best of luck. We have to hang in there!
Samantha 10.30.09 at 7:34 pm
I forgot to mention I’m 24, not 16. But was on the pill for about 6 years.
kat 11.02.09 at 3:42 am
What should i do if my doctor thinks going on the pill is a good idea because of the estrogen in it also i read that Yasmin has something in it that’s suppose to be equal to 25mg of Spironolactone..(i read that on Dr. Redmonds site) Ive never been on any birth control or medication so would trying this out make my HL worse?
Thanks xoxo
Kasey 11.03.09 at 10:48 pm
I am so glad I found this site. I have had Hashimotos Disease (thyroid/ autoimmune disease) for about 15 years…yet the disease NEVER affected my hair…it has always been thick and shiny. I do have a progesterone deficiency and so I took bio identical hormones for that and hair was still fine. For 2 months now I have been on Femcon (first time EVER taking birth control) and my hair is falling out BIG time…should I stop taking the pill? All my doctors ( I have 3 of them, 2 doctors for the Hashimotos and my Gyno) say its not the pill but my thyroid disease…but it just seems like too much of a coincidence that I have had the thyroid problem for so long and never had hair problems….now all of a sudden I go on BC and im getting noticeably thinner. I guess I can just go off them now before its too late…but what can I use for BC besides condoms? Im so torn, I dont want to get pregnant…but I dont want to lose my hair!!!
Carol 11.14.09 at 7:11 am
Anyone go through peri-menopause and started losing your hair?
What is the solution to hair loss in DHT sensitive women? I am on bio-identical to get this under control. I ordered Hair Essentials supplement because I heard it helps hair loss. The HRT is causing my thyroid top fluctuate and more brittle hair although sometimes I feel releif on it.
My ovaries are failing and so is my hair. I really am trying to get a ggrip because i also have burning scalp syndrome. It is absolute torture.
I was fine for nine years until peri hit. It’s hell on earth.
Traci 11.16.09 at 2:03 pm
Hello, My name is Traci I’m 26 and suffering from hair loss. I don’t no what caused my hair loss. I got married 2 months ago sooo maybe stress. I stopped taking birth control about a year ago. I’m always cold skin is dry my Low Thyriod? My hair has always been thin, so Genetics Im sure, but it seems to be getting thinner. I’m so fed up with my hair. I just want to look sexy and feminine! Does anybody got any suggestions?
Christine 11.18.09 at 12:10 pm
Traci, are you more tired/fatigued than usual? If so, your hair loss might have something to do with adrenal fatigue. Doctors don’t buy it but I noticed sudden hair loss around the time I was experiencing severe fatigue. Once I slept more and felt a bit less stressed I was shedding less hair. You need to take care of yourself, if this is the case. Sleep lots, drink lots of water, exercise for better circulation, practice deep-breathing, take biotin and vitamin B complex or brewer’s yeast (it’s much cheaper and contains certain B vitamins missing in most vitamin B complexes sold commercially) and lastly change your diet by avoiding meats, oils, preservatives, etc, and add more leafy greens to your diet. Something you might want to consider is a hair analysis for minerals and heavy elements. If your hair loss is caused by mineral deficiency, then proper mineral intake should help. Often people are deficient in manganese, zinc, and selenium. For some copper. And switch over to chemical free shampoo. There are lots out there. There are also internet sites that provide hair analysis. I’ve seen one or two that claims to identify from the analysis the source of hair loss? It’s something you might want to check out. I am considering getting it done for myself.
Christine
Stephanie 11.18.09 at 8:17 pm
I’ve read through everyone’s comments and my situation is a little different. I’ve always had very oily skin and hair (genetics) and have some excess hair growth on my chin/neck. I recently had bloodwork done which showed high DHEAS levels (androgens). Back in 2006, I was on birth control for a 6 month period but didn’t notice any changes. In the past year or so, I’ve noticed my hair getting thinner and patchy spots in the crown. I feel like I’m using a large amount of hair and my doctor told me to try going back on birth control but not sure if I should. I’m worried that I’ll lose more hair or disturb my hormone levels even more. Could being on he pill back in 2006 be causing my hair loss now? Or am I maybe just going through some weird hormonal cycle? Any advice would be great. I’m also thinking of maybe taking some vitamins to try and see if that will help and I recently started adding flaxseed to my diet.
Gus 11.19.09 at 1:05 am
Hi,
I want to thank your post, and wish you all the best luck for your hair loss problems!
My wife has a hair loss problem for a long time (maybe since she was 18), she’s now 27, and she believes her hair is better nowadays, she started to take the pill at 24, but she always made the biggest effort to fight and understand the root of the problem, so since I know, her she takes vitamins, a spray lotion named “Minocalve” and goes to the dermatologist 3 times a year to do cryotherapy, which burns your scalp with liquid nitrogen at-196ºC. For what it takes to me, her hair is perfect, although it’s thin, but perfectly controlled. We’re now thinking of having a baby, and she is afraid stop having the pill (Belara), because she tells me her hair is better after taking the pill. But, obviously it’s inevitable stop taking it, and I’m encouraging her to never take it again (after the baby), because after taking the pill, her libido decreased, and affected our sexual life. I don’t won’t to sound selfish, I’ve always tried to ignore the side effects, but after reading this post I believe that it’s worth it to go throw less better times and recover after some time by your own organism.
Celeste 11.25.09 at 7:03 am
Hi, I’m Celeste and I’m 34 years old. My hair loss began a little over a year ago. I have always had thick hair that I always got compliments on. I have never been on any BCP because they always made me sick. Anyway, it just started coming out in wads. I went to a derm who said that my ferritin was low(29), so I took Repliva for 3 weeks and just like that , it went back to normal. I blew it off as some freak thing and went on with my life. Six months later, it starts coming out again, so I start on Repliva again. It gets not better. I go back to the derm and my ferritin is at 48, after being on Repliva for 3 months. She sends me to a hemotologist. All he does is monitor my ferritin level. This past week he checked and my ferritin had jumped to 92, but I am seeing NO improvement in my hair loss. My hair dresser seems to think it’s somehow hormonal related. All my hormone test have come back fine and I’m considering going on Yaz, to see if it will help. I am desperate and it is really affecting my entire life. Not looking forward to the holidays, but trying to paint a smile on for my two beautiful children. I’m also taking Replive, with lysine and orange juice, a daily multi-vitamin, biotin, fish oil, b12, and Zinc.
Any suggestions?
carson 11.28.09 at 11:47 pm
DO NOT USE YAZ!!!! I am 46 years old, went on YAZ about one year and a half ago to control the sebaceous glands on my face. Had acne that was worse than anything i had at 14. The acne cleared up immediately and I thought everything was fine. This past July my doctor advised that my white blood cell count was off the stratsophere. After calming down I realized the only thing I did within the last year and a half was start using Yaz. I stopped. Some four months later my hair has broken off , just inside the middle area of my head. For some reason I have been blessed and have hair all around the crown, but only new growth in the middle. I went to a herbalist who advised that I also have an overabundance of sebum in my scalp, and the hormone imbalance is causing the hair loss. She made me a vitality tea and I have been drinking it for just about a month. My skin is almost flawless. I am hoping my hormones are also adjusting and until finding this site, was in a state of panic about my hair. DO NOT TAKE YAZ or YASMIN, the side effects are not good and if you do internet research, there are many lawyers who are collecting information to bring a class action lawsuit. REading these stories has calmed my nerves about what is going on. I am, however looking for a doctor who can give me a hair analysis. FYI, the herbalist recommended hemp oil around the thinning areas. I also use hemp shampoo and conditioner, when shampooing my hair I leave it on for about one half hour before rinsing it. Thank you all for sharing your stories, and I hope my experiences will be as helpful to others as yours have been to me.
tara 12.21.09 at 8:49 pm
hey, i am 22 years old and was on yasmine for 7 months 4 months in i developed AA and suffered from 8 bald spots on my scalp one large hard to hide and the rest small and spread out. i stopped taking the pill as soon as i put 2 and 2 together and now my 8 spots have trickled down to 2 . i think personally its mother natures way of telling us not to mess with our bodies! worst part of all is that im a hair stylist and it was very difficult to go to work everyday and deal with women who have long thick beautiful hair ! i cried every night and wore extentions , people would ask me if i had cancer and that would make me feel even worse and even more vain.im still very insecure about my hair… and when people crack jokes in lude of comic relif i laugh along with them but when im alone i stare in the mirror and cry>
Hannah 12.23.09 at 8:06 am
Thank you so much! Reading your story makes me feel as if im not alone. When I was 17 took Tri-Sprentic for a year due to horrible periods that caused em to miss school. All was well when I took the pill and after a year of taking it I decided to get off it. A month after stopping my use of the bill my hair started falling out and breaking off! My mother and everyone told me it was due to stress but I knew they were wrong. I went to my hair dresser and she put me on Nioxin thin and fine hair. I havent really seen any change from using this product but I have only used it for about a month. Also after three months of hair loss I finally realized that maybe it was due to going off the pill. I went to my doctor and she put me back on the pill. Im so confused Im 18 and im going bald! I used to have gorgeous curly brown baby-fine hair and now its dry breaking and extremely thin
Vanessa 12.29.09 at 5:43 am
Tara~
I feel for you! I am almost 30yrs old and my boyfriend just pointed out last night how extremely thin my hair is getting. I myself am a hairstylist as well. I have always had very fine hair, but used to have alot more of it. I’m trying to figure out when my hair started getting so thin and I feel like its been the past couple of years. It is so thin now that I wear clip-in extensions, and in some spots you can see my scalp. The hair on the sides of my head are especially thin. I eat a very healthy diet and take vitamins, I dont smoke and I work out. I cannot begin to understand why this is happening to me! I’ve been in tears over it because I’m afraid something could be very wrong with my body. All of the women in my family have TONS of hair. After reading alot of these postings, I am wondering if my hair loss could also be connected to the pill. My boyfriend finds my hairs all over the place, and being a hairstylist, I take extremely good care of my hair. At first I thought maybe my hair was just breaking off from the chemicals, but I have not had any bleach in my hair for over a year now and my hair is still getting thinner. I have been on birth control since I was 20 (almost 10yrs now) but was on ortho-tri-cyclen and switched to yaz for a year and now have been on yasmin for the last year. I dont know how strong of a connection it could be, but it has been 2yrs that i’ve been on yas/yasmin and about the same amount of time that my hair has been getting thinner. If anyone has any more information about the connection between hairloss and birth control…especially yaz/yasmin, please let me know! Some of the posts say it helped their hair, others say it made hair loss worse! My ob/gyn seems to think there is no connection and that its safe but the more I read the more concerned I get!
Celeste 01.19.10 at 7:27 am
Ladies,
Another thing, like I said before I am not on any BC and never have been, but the last several months I’m spotting between my periods. It makes me thing this has to be hormonal related, but nothing is showing up on my tests. I have the Yaz in the cabinet, but am scared to try it. I see my hemotologist again in February. It is so frustrating to think that I’ve lost the thing that I liked the most about myself. Something that I have found to be helpful is to stop counting hairs. I’ve found that if you stop counting you stress less and can move on a little easier. Anyone have any ideas on what could be up with me?
Cassie 01.25.10 at 8:44 am
Hi Everyone!
The only thing getting me through it is that a lot of the research I have come across seems to suggest that my hair will get better eventually! I’m currently keeping notes of everthing so I can look back and help others! I’ve also been taking photographs which I hope will show improvement in the not so distant future. I’ll come back when I have more information and hopefully more hair!
x
I have suffered with hairloss after taking Yasmin for the past 4-5 years. I did stop for a few months in 2007 which seemed to trigger my hairloss. I initially didn’t notice this and when I did back in 2008 didn’t associate it with Yasmin. Well it’s January 2010 and I stopped Yasmin in October 2009. At the moment I’m sure I’m enetering the dread shed!
so tired of this 01.25.10 at 3:26 pm
Stephanie- not sure if you check this anymore but my doctor also said my DHEAS levels were high (I’ve always had extremely oily skin and hair as well). I was on ortho tri cyclin for 8 years. Never had any hair loss until about a year after I stopped taking it I noticed more hair falling out in the shower and when I combed it when it was wet. Not the clumps that some other people describe- but this has been going on since August and no new hairs are growing so it is finally starting to get thin on top (I had fairly thick hair to begin with). My derm, endo and gyno told me to go back on ortho since they found no other cause for the high DHEAS level. I’ve been on it for three weeks and haven’t noticed a difference yet. Has anyone else had an issue with their DHEAS level? Not sure if the birth control caused this or not- but like so many other women I was looking for a quick fix so I went back on it immediately. I also just started using apple cidar vigar rinse and ordered that Jason’s shampoo so I’m hoping I have some success- have those products worked for anyone?
I definitely agree with the earlier post about not counting the hairs. Like all of you I’m sure, taking a shower and combing out my hair after is such a stressful time. I pray before I run my comb through that I won’t see all the hairs fall out- and I’m constantly checking the shower walls to see if there is hair on them. All this stress definitely does not help the problem! I’m really going to try to stop doing this- stressing about it doesn’t stop the hair from falling so why bother!
Ann 02.04.10 at 11:19 am
About 2 years ago I went on birth control for the first time -Yaz. My hair has always been super thick and about 6-8 months in - I noticed my hair not feeling the same. It would feel greasy and not right even after a shower. Over a year in, I noticed my hair had thinned significantly along with the texture (same greasy feeling). I never realized that the pill had anything to do with this, but now I’m convinced that Yaz had caused the thinning. I’m wondering why this happened to me since I’ve read that Yaz is very “hair friendly.” Anyway, I went off the pill on October 18th 2009 and am experiencing the dread shed now just like you Cassie. I’m wondering how long before the shedding will stop? I have read this is a waiting game and it will eventually grow back - I just hope it is sooner than later because my hair is already very noticeably thin. Hopefully I can get my hair back to where it was 2 years ago before starting Yaz.
Carmen 02.04.10 at 9:42 pm
Part of me wanted to stop reading all the postings because it gave me a feeling of dread and denial was so much more comfortable even for fleeting moments . But I kept reading and some gave me hope, some gave me answers and some made me laugh as i recognized myself in the obsessing of hairloss. I have thinning areas at the temples and in the fringe and back of the crown but no bald spots. I noticed thining in my early 40’s but could not find any reason why as all the tests for blood, hormones, and tyroid were normal. I had a poor diet, high in fat and sugar, lots of stress and a genetic predisposition as my mother and grandmother thinned over the years. I, unlike many of you, went on the pill, yasmin to correct the prolem diagnosed from a hairpull by a dermatologist, as male pattern hairloss. Problem is I went very aggressive. I went on yasmin, used minoxidil, added supplements such as flax seeds, oils, b12, nizoral shampoo, decreased my sugar intake and made a conscious effort to stop fretting and counting shedding hairs. I started this regimen in Aug 07 and by April 09, put hairloss worries behind me as my hair was fuller, stronger and had a lot of new growth. I switched to yas in May 09 with continued positive hair results until Jan 10. Now, it is shedding again and thinning and I’ve fallen off the wagon and counting the “fallen” again. I am back on the computer researching, and back to the doctor for blood tests. Joy. I have no idea what is going on as this new wave of shedding is 8 mos after switching from yasmin to yas. Debating going back to yasmin??!!
Robin 02.07.10 at 11:11 am
I searched and searched the internet to try to find up-to-date stories about my losing my hair after I stopped the birth control pill, loestrin (which they had put me on because of my low bone density). I was getting very depressed because all of the stories about hair loss after birth control were old… even stories back as far as 2004. I wanted to hear some of today’s stories, so thank you for posting this update.
I’m 33 years old; I went off the pill in September 2009 and have been losing my hair for the past two months. Like many, my hair dresser alerted me to the seriousness (something I was choosing to ignore). I have then hair anyway and was searching the internet to try to get an idea of HOW LONG this hair loss happens. It seems to vary for different people, but if anyone has encouraging stories, please let me know. I’d love to hear stories like “It only lasted a few months, and then my hair grew back fuller and healthier than ever!” Anyone??
Cassie 02.08.10 at 7:19 am
Ann/Robin
I think we’ve all got our fingers crossed for this!
I’ve researched this quite a lot and from what I have found out it seems the dread shred starts approximately 3-6 months after stopping the pill and can last for 6-12 months apparently. I’m not sure how accurate this is as you don’t seem to find any stories from women after their hair has grown back. I’m just hoping that this time next year I have my hair back!
Cassie 02.08.10 at 7:19 am
Ann/Robin
I think we’ve all got our fingers crossed for this!
I’ve researched this quite a lot and from what I have found out it seems the dread shred starts approximately 3-6 months after stopping the pill and can last for 6-12 months apparently. I’m not sure how accurate this is as you don’t seem to find any stories from women after their hair has grown back. I’m just hoping that this time next year I have my hair back!
Heather J. 02.16.10 at 1:05 pm
Wow, I would have to say that reading about everyones elses struggles certainly makes me feel less alone. I am 22 years old and had been on birth control for about 4 years. About a year ago, I decided I wanted to stop taking the pill because I felt that it made me a little bit more emotional than I normally was. Although I did want to go off of BC (I was on othro tri cylen low), I generally responded very well to it- I just had this feeling that it was not good to be on. After talking to my boyfriend about it, we decided that maybe it wasn’t the best move to get off birth control. So I went to the gyno and she put me on nuvaring. I started nuvaring in Feb-March 2009 and loved it. It was a little weird to have a ring in there, but I had a steady boyfriend and he was okay with it. I didn’t really notice any side effects other than being slightly crampy and having much fuller breasts. Later on towards the end of the summer, my mom kept telling me my hair was getting thin. It pissed me off and I would argue that it wasn’t- it had been that way (I had horrible skin as a teen and went on accutane- as a teen I had very thick hair, so losing a little was not that noticable). I insisted that it was from the accutane and began my search/obsession with finding a cause for thinning hair. Originallly, I set out to prove to myself that accutane was still affecting my hair. After another month, I started to realize that my mother was right- my hair was definitly thinner. I continued to research my problem, cut my long hair above my shoulders, and made an appointment at a dermotologists office. The first thing my derm asked was if I was taking any medication and I said no just BC. She seemed to not even care that I was 22 and pretty much just told me that women lose their too and well, its a part of life. She began giving me cortisone injections in my scalp. About 2 months later, my constant research brought me to the topic of BC and hairloss. I freaked. I realized that I had really noticed my hair about 5 months after starting a new BC. Could that be it? I was so pissed at the derm for not even thinking twice about BC when I had found so much on the web to link the two. I kept looking on the internet both to prove my theory and to help find a solution. I read on nuvaring’s website that scalp hair loss was a side effect and found out that nuvaring was on webmd’s list of the top four birth controls that cause hair loss. I took the nuvaring out despite claims that stopping it would make it worse because I thought that it would probably work itself out if I stopped more than continuing on a cycle of birth control. After I stopped BC, I started to take this stuff called Nuhair because I was desperate to help it in some way. I read about it online and it contain a chinese root that was suppose to really help hair grow. I did not use the whole regimen because I was afraid to start a hairloss regimin that was for male pattern baldness if my problem was not that. Anyway I took the nuhair pills for about 3-4 months. I started to wean myself off because my derm (I started seeing a different lady who was much more responsive) said it probably was not smart to continue (the chinese root- he shou wo is said to be photoestrogenic) because again it would affect my hormones. So now I have been taking a mulitivitamin, a hair, skin, and nails vitamin, and boitin for probaly about 2 months now. It is really hard to tell if anything is helping, but I am defintly not losing my hair like I used to. It is still a huge issue for me though because of all the hair i did lose. I do not have any bald spots necessarily, but the back crown of my head definitly suffered the most loss. I use toppik and it works like magic, but I just hate having to use it everyday to conceal my problem. I wonder what I will do when summer comes around because right now- I cannot let ppl see me with my hair wet. Even though my situation is still bad to me, about 3 weeks ago I realized I had little hairs sprouting out all over my head at different lengths. Some hairs are about 2 inches while others are about 1 centimeter. My baby hairs too keep growing to the point where they look pretty funny. I was imediatelty relieved when i first noticed my hair coming in, however it is still bad to me. I keep telling myself that the short hairs that are growing in now are probably from the first hairs that fell out, so all the hairs that fell out later have just yet to grow in. I truly hope my theory is correct, that it was nuvaring, however I have a feeling that using that nuhair stuff probably interferred with the process. I use thicker, fuller hair products and toppik and it really seems to allow me to hide it, but my ponytail is rather thin so I always wear it in a low bun or claw clip. The vitiamins defintly make my hair grow pretty fast though so I am praying that it will all return to normal in a year. I may have to keep cutting my hair so it is less noticable when I wear it down, but really this whole situation really just took a toll on me. It is devasting as a female to lose hair, especially because no one seems to know anything about it. Even to this date my derm does not want to say it was the birth control, but for the last year I had to be my own advocate. If it weren’t for my obession and devastation, I probably would have never linked my hair loss to nuvaring and probably would have been bald. Like everyone has said before, I will make sure I continue to update everyone on my hair situation. Good luck to everyone as well, you are not alone.
Cassie 02.18.10 at 7:58 am
Is anyone else suffering with terrible painful spots that just won’t shift?
Cassie 02.18.10 at 7:58 am
Is anyone else suffering with terrible painful spots that just won’t shift?
Lou 03.05.10 at 7:56 am
I have been on this website many times over the last 6 months and have found so much reassurance just from knowing that there are so many other people out there who are having a tough time of it with hair shedding.
My shedding started about 6 months ago and as I have had several triggers during that time, it just keeps on going! The most recent of which was stopping taking Yasmin around 3.5 months ago.
I have consulted just about everybody about why this is happening and whether there is anything that I can do to try and stop it and have learnt so much about hair during that time!
If it had just been the hair shedding I think I would have coped a bit better but with it I have had the awful burning scalp syndrome, hair which was painful to touch and terrible dandruff!
I was recently referred to a dermatologist who specialises in the scalp and hair issues who was so understanding and incredibly helpful. I had a whole raft of blood tests done including iron, ferritin, hormones etc etc and absolutely everything came back as being good. The hair biopsy showed that I have more hairs than usual in the telogen stage - which obviously explains the shedding. It doesn’t appear to have triggered AGA though, fingers crossed anyway.
The dermatologist was brilliant and reassured me that this will stop but that it will just take a bit of time. His advice was to make sure I have a balanced diet which is high in protein given that this is essentially what hair is as this will help with the regrowth.
I am 6 months into this and at times I have felt utterly depressed about the whole thing. My husband and family have been brilliant, so supportive, but no one really understands just how having big chunks of hair come out actually makes you feel. It’s not that I’m vain but I just like to always look well presented and when you’re constantly picking hair off your shoulders, it makes you feel a mess.
I do believe that one day this will stop and until then I’m trying my hardest to focus on all the other things that life has going for it. The dermatologist recommended that I should go and speak to someone about this who might be able to help me deal with it a little better and after much denying that I needed help, I think I do. That starts next week.
I’m trying to be positive and although some days it is easier than others, I do believe that this is just a temporary thing. I’m trying my hardest not to sit and count hairs or get upset when I find them all over the house as I know that that won’t help the recovery. I do think that the shedding might be showing some signs of improving although I’m not getting my hopes up just yet.
I have been warned that as telogen effluvium has struck once, it might well be my achilles heel but hopefully next time it strikes, I’ll be stronger and able to deal with it a bit better.
Anyway, that’s my story. For those of you going through this, a few tips. Try and find a sympathetic dermatologist, make sure you eat well and take care of your body - any neglect will only impact upon your regrowth, and try and stay calm - I started reflexology which helped so much with my relaxation. Just know you’re not alone and that there are so many others out there going through the same thing.
If this does eventually let up, I’ll let you all know.
Sorry for the long post!